How do I deal with a toxic mother-in-law and my sister-in-law?

10 Tips for Dealing With a Toxic Mother-In-Law

1. Consider why she might be treating you this way.
2. Avoid escalating conflict.
3. Remember that strong emotions make bad situations worse, so learn to detach.
4. Recognize and avoid triggers.
5. Verbalize and enforce your boundaries.
6. Don’t pick fights, but stand up for yourself.

What boundaries should I set for my mother-in-law?

Boundaries are the limits you are willing to reach or let others reach in any relationship with you. An example with your mother-in-law might be setting a boundary regarding what she needs to do to come over. Some couple’s boundaries might allow the in-laws to come over unannounced, others with a few days’ warning.

How do you set boundaries when living with in-laws?

6 Tips for Setting Boundaries With Your In-Laws, According to a Therapist

1. Shift Your Thinking.
2. Take Competition out of the Equation.
3. Think About What They’re Feeling.
4. Sync Up with Your Spouse.
5. Establish Regular Visiting Times.
6. Give Them Time with the Children.

Why is my mother-in-law so clingy to my son?

In contrast to problem #3 where your parent-in-law treats you or your husband as an infant, in this case, they are the ones acting like a child. It’s like they’re afraid of losing the attention of their son, so they become clingy, needy and attached to him, even to the point of competing for his love with you.

How do you know if you have a meddling mother-in-law?

The moment you’re having an occasional argument with your spouse, just like any normal married couple would, but your in-laws are being nosy and butting in or if they expect you to consult them first whenever you’re trying to make a career or housing decision, that’s when you know you have a meddling parent-in-law.

Why do my in-laws always fuss about my baby’s cold?

For example, if your in-laws are overly fussing about the cold he’s having, implying that you are not taking better care of him like they did, unnecessarily sending over food to your house, or not trusting him with making major life decision with you.

What is your favorite thing about your mother-in-law?

One of my favorite things about my mother-in-law is her ability to express herself without compunction and her commensurate ability to agree to disagree. She respects that, like her, I’m outspoken and have strong feelings about most (okay, all) topics.

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