Why do I keep attracting unavailable guys?
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Research has demonstrated that we are often attracted to partners who seem familiar to us and have similar qualities to our parents. One of the reasons people are drawn to emotionally unavailable partners is due to the role models they had for romantic relationships in childhood.
Why am I attracted to people that don’t want me?
So why can’t we let go of people who continually reject us? According to Helen Fisher and her colleagues, the reason romantic rejection gets us hooked is that this sort of rejection stimulates parts of the brain associated with motivation, reward, addiction, and cravings.
How do I stop attracting the wrong guys?
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Why do I attract certain type of men?
In other words, we subconsciously seek mates who complement us whether it’s negative or positive. In each dysfunctional relationship, both people likely have the same underlying emotional problem (that’s the reason they’re attracted to each other).
Why can’t I like this nice guy?
Why can’t I like him?” Women have a strong sense of intuition about things like this. We can tell when something’s off. A woman with a high sense of self-worth is even more aware something is wrong below the surface of this Nice Guy. A woman with low self-worth will agonize over why she isn’t interested and feel guilty about it.
Most women are unaware of why they’re attracted to unavailable men. Most women don’t seek out or sustain interest in unavailable men, but more women than any of us would like to admit do.
Is being “hate-able” a strategy for getting guys attracted?
I’m not trying to say that being “hate-able” is a strategy for getting guys attracted. It’s not. I am saying that provoking emotions, positive or negative, is usually a sign that attraction potential is there. Moving on to my other point…
How to deal with an unavailable man in a relationship?
For women who find themselves in a relationship with an unavailable man, the women don’t need to change everything about themselves—they just need to switch their focus. Specifically, they need to switch from focusing their energy into obtaining his affection to focusing on their own emotional needs.