Do guys really mean they say I love you?

Men say “I love you” when they mean, “I think you’re wonderful.” Or, “right this minute I am so happy being next to you and being with you.” It is a statement of a really strong positive feeling. Someone who truly has such a feeling before or in the middle of sex may not feel that way a few hours later.

Why do boys say I love you early?

They theorized that when men said it first, before having sex, it was a way to gain their partner’s trust and thus ease the way to sexual activity—an impulse that the men may not even have been conscious of. “The decision to say they feel love first can make sense strategically,” Ackerman says.

Do men mean it when they say ‘I Love You’?

It’s unfortunate, but sometimes men (and women too!) say ‘I love you’ without really meaning it. It’s a shame and truly something that messes with the heart on the other end, but to help reduce the risks of being played into a fake love, we are going to give you the three top reasons a man might say ‘I love you’ without meaning it.

Why do guys not like to say I Love you first?

The majority of men don’t like to say ‘I love you’ first. It may be that they are scared, they don’t want to come across as needy, they are afraid of rejection, or simply their ego doesn’t want them to be the one being all emotional. Some men are even afraid of being in love period.

When should you not say I Love you in a relationship?

Don’t say I love you in that moment because you do not feel it at that time. Only say the words when you truly mean with every visceral part of your heart. Rule #1 Don’t say it post-sex.

Why do men say these words to a woman they love?

For many men, love is expressed through action, so these words are a promise of what is to follow. Simply by saying these words they feel they are agreeing to be there, to give to her and support her. If they don’t do it, they’ll feel like a heel. Trending stories,celebrity news and all the best of TODAY.