How do I stop projecting past relationships?

Let’s get practical.

1. Love yourself like you would anyone else.
2. Feel your feelings.
3. Watch the things you tell yourself in an argument.
4. Your vulnerabilities are beautiful.
5. Stay with the tough stuff.
6. Widen the space between what happens, and how you respond.
7. Use the forgive button.
8. Let go of ‘perfection’.

How do I get over my ex’s attachment?

How to let go of your ex:

1. Find love within yourself.
2. Grieve. You may not want to, but really leaning in and feeling your emotions is integral to letting go of an ex.
3. Recognize that you will love someone else this much again. Yes, you can love again.
4. Feel your next partner before they arrive.

How do you go from anxious attachment to secure?

To change your style to be more secure, seek therapy as well as relationships with others who are capable of a secure attachment. If you have an anxious attachment style, you will feel more stable in a committed relationship with someone who has a secure attachment style. This helps you become more secure.

How do you release an attachment?

We can help dissolve these attachments with a few different practices:

1. Meditation. Meditation is simply sitting still and trying to pay attention to the present moment — whether that’s your breath, your body, or what’s around you right now.
2. Compassion.
3. Interdependence.
4. Accepting.
5. Expansiveness.

How do you emotionally detach from your ex?

Here are some things you can try.

1. Identify the reason. Ask yourself why you’re now deciding to detach from the relationship.
2. Release your emotions.
3. Don’t react, respond.
4. Start small.
5. Keep a journal.
6. Meditate.
7. Be patient with yourself.
8. Look forward.