Do you owe your ex closure?

Your ex doesn’t owe you “closure” — because it doesn’t exist. You do not owe an explanation for breaking up with someone, especially if they are abusive. In most cases, the breakup is inevitable as it’s ultra-rare that a relationship can work for one person if it’s not working for the other.

Is it normal to question your breakup?

Sometimes the reasons are clear, such as frequent arguments, lack of interest, and abuse. Other times, breakups are not so obvious, and that can leave you questioning your decision. You may think your partner was a good person, but that something was missing in the relationship.

How do you break up with someone with nothing wrong?

How to break up with someone even if nothing is ‘wrong’

1. Take some time to make sure this is what you want.
2. Consider the logistics of your break-up and plan accordingly.
3. Set aside a time for a healthy talk and get right down to it.
4. Take action and move forward with the break-up.

Do I owe someone an explanation?

You don’t owe anyone an explanation for why you are what you are and believe what you believe. If someone can’t accept you for who you are, that is their personal dogma—not yours.

What is a good reason to end a relationship?

Cheating, infidelity, lying, refusing to change and being inattentive to your partner’s needs when they turn to you for support are reasons to end a relationship. Sometimes, just drifting apart because you share nothing in common is a reason to walk out.

What to say to someone you broke up with?

What to Say and How to Say It

• Tell your BF or GF that you want to talk about something important.
• Start by mentioning something you like or value about the other person.
• Say what’s not working (your reason for the break-up).
• Say you want to break up.
• Say you’re sorry if this hurts.
• Say something kind or positive.