Should you take revenge on a cheater?
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Should you take revenge on a cheater?
Trying to get revenge on someone for cheating on you is always, always a bad idea. ‘The feeling of revenge is a deeply instinctual part of being human,’ psychologist Dr Lisa Orban tells metro.co.uk. ‘Many believe that the emotional release of exacting revenge will help us feel better.
What is the best revenge after being cheated on?
To help you out, here are seven ways to get revenge on a cheating boyfriend that will prove you play the game even better than he does.
- Cut him off completely.
- Get your body rockin’.
- Become friends with the girl(s) he cheated with.
- Gain family support.
- Broadcast his infidelity everywhere.
- Date one of his friends.
How do you recover from being cheated on?
How to cope with being cheated on
- Remember: you are not to blame.
- Accept that things are going to suck for a while.
- Put yourself first.
- Try to keep your cool.
- Don’t make decisions out of fear.
- Surround yourself with your squad.
- Take a mini-break from socials.
- Ask for (professional) help if you need it.
What cheating does to a person?
Getting cheated on is one of the most devastating and damaging things that can happen in a person’s life. It can lead to emotional distress, anxiety, depression, an increase in risk-taking behavior and actual physical pain. A partner’s infidelity can even change our brain chemistry.
How can I be accountable after cheating?
Here are 7 things you must do to make amends and move forward.
- Personal Accountability. You must take complete accountability for your actions.
- Empathy. Cheaters lack empathy, at least while they’re cheating.
- Be Patient.
- Follow through.
- Be vulnerable.
- Set limits.
- Detach from the outcome.