How do you make an INTJ feel better?

Here are some suggestions that don’t run counter to our personality type.

1. Subtly do something nice for someone. When INTJs express emotions, they tend to do it in a kinesthetic way.
2. Be present.
3. Focus on the happy.
4. Name your feelings.
5. Mirror others.
6. Tell a story.
7. Let it out in private.
8. Touch and feel.

How do you show INTJ you care?

11 Ways to Be a Good Partner for an INTJ in Life and at Work

1. Share your long-term vision.
2. Be prepared to keep up with their formidable logic and willpower.
3. Understand their complex minds.
4. Discuss the future.
5. Ask them about their “theory” on everything.
6. Listen to their contingency plans.

What are intjs like as emotionally?

For a personality type known as “robots,” INTJs have a deep emotional core. We keep this largely hidden from the world, not as a protective measure but simply because we tend to view feelings as private. Expressing them in public is awkward, like forgetting to put on pants. But those feelings are surprisingly sensitive.

Are INTJ’s distracted?

INTJs can be distracted as distracted can be, especially when something bores us. But when we listen to someone and then follow up on things that they say, it means that we care about them. The ultimate gift that an INTJ can give another is our presence.

Are intjs pre-programmed with an emotional outlet valve?

Most INTJs are not pre-programmed with an emotional outlet valve; rather, we learn to express our feelings through conscious observation and deliberate mimicry. While other people talk, we watch and scrutinize their words, their body language and their gestures. And then we steal those expressions. Yup.

Do intjs agree with you More than you think?

We agree with you more than you think (really). INTJs can be argumentative. But, unlike most people, we don’t always argue because we’re upset. We argue because we like to test out new ideas. This can lead to major communication problems. For example, we may argue for something as a hypothetical only to have other people think we really believe it.