Why is no one messaging me on OkCupid?

Originally Answered: Why doesn’t anyone reply on OkCupid? The main reasons are: Your profile and/or photos are a turn-off to those who you would like to reply. Your initial messages are not compelling enough to get a reply.

What does it mean when someone likes you on OkCupid?

“Who likes you” on OkCupid is a premium feature, so you’ll have to upgrade if you want to see the full list of users who have already ‘liked’ your profile. As a free member, you’ll receive a pop-up notification when you “like” the profile of someone who has “liked” you already.

How do you know if someone likes you back on OkCupid?

If you and another member Like each other, we always let you both know, for free.

1. If they like you first: as soon as you Like their profile, you’ll see a pop-up telling you that you both Like each other!
2. If you like them first: we’ll send you a notification as soon as they Like you back.

Why do likes disappear on OkCupid?

Good news: everyone you see on OkCupid in Discover or Questions will be someone that you haven’t already Liked or introduced yourself to. Once you send an introductory message to someone, we won’t show them to you again on OkCupid until they like you back.

Why can’t I see my matches on OkCupid?

If you’re not seeing as many people as you expect, try double checking your Looking For settings. You may want to consider expanding those if they’re very restrictive. You may also want to reset your passes (you can do so from your settings page under Privacy) to take another look at people you’ve passed on.

How can you tell if someone has blocked you on OkCupid?

Anyone you’ve messaged or had a conversation with will continue to have the message(s) until THEY decide to delete it from their inbox, though ultimately they won’t be able to reply (ever). Also your profile will not be accessible anymore, and your profile picture will be a grayed out silhouette.

Can you take back a like on match?

Feelings change – and sometimes you just tap the wrong thing – but unfortunately you can’t undo a like or dislike. (You can undo a match, though. Just swipe left on the match and click the red ‘X’ that appears.)

How do you see who you passed on OkCupid?

You won’t see anyone you’ve passed on within 30 days. If there’s somebody you’d prefer not to ever see again on OkCupid, you can block/ unmatch with them.

Does OkCupid show who visited your profile?

OKCupid has not formally announced this change on its blog, but has started to notify users about it via email, according to a post on Reddit. Heads up, daters. OKCupid is quietly doing away with a major feature: the ability to see who has visited your profile.