How do you deal with parents not supporting you?
How do you deal with parents not supporting you?
If you have unsupportive parents, here are my 9 tips:
- Understand your parents’ concerns.
- Talk to them.
- Get a third party to chime in.
- Assert yourself.
- Know that you don’t need your parents’ approval.
- Less talk, more action.
- Update them on your little successes.
- Get them on board.
What do you do when your parents don’t understand you?
Talk to another adult, such as another relative or the parent of a friend. You can also talk to someone at your school, like a school counselor. You and your parents may need to see a therapist together. It’s important your parents recognize negative habits and learn to treat you better as a person.
How do you handle working with resistant or uninvolved parents or teachers?
How to Deal with Uninvolved Parents
- Don’t assume it’s because they don’t care. Often time teachers make the mistake of assuming parents that are uninvolved don’t care or are uninterested.
- Examine the barriers stopping them.
- Be more flexible.
- Leverage other people.
How do you deal with a demanding parent?
How to Deal with Difficult Parents
- Set appropriate boundaries. Establishing appropriate boundaries with your parents can have a positive impact on your relationship.
- Get in their heads. Does your mother come over and try to rearrange your furniture?
- Confide in siblings.
- Lower your expectations.
- Go to therapy together.
How do you avoid toxic parents?
Some key factors include:
- Set boundaries with your parents (and enforcing them!)
- Accept the guilt (and live with the discomfort)
- Don’t try to change them—change what you can control.
- Take care of yourself first.
- Surround yourself with supportive relationships.
- Be prepared to exit the relationship if necessary.