What does an unhealthy mother son relationship look like?

Manipulation: Manipulative behavior to get things done her way or fulfill her wishes is a classic example of an unhealthy mother-son relationship. Crying, making the son feel bad, and gaining sympathy are a few ways some mothers tend to manipulate.

Why does my son not want to talk to me?

You talk too much: If you child is more introverted, they may need time to be quiet, time alone or time to process what you’re asking. If your child is more extroverted, they may need more time to talk. You’re judgmental: Your child may not talk to you because they are afraid of your response.

Why don’t my kids call me back?

It’s possible the reason your kids don’t call you is because you’re needy – a high-maintenance parent. It’s not that you’re guilty of asking for favors, it’s just that your grown children sense your emotional neediness. It’s draining to have a parent who needs heavy doses of love and attention.

Why does my child dislike calling their parents?

Occasionally, a client will tell me that they dislike calling their parent because when they call, the conversation revolves exclusively around the parent’s life, interests, and issues. When the child does speak about their life, the parent invariably turns the discussion back to themselves.

Why don’t adult children call often?

Adult children may not call often if there is an unresolved childhood hurt. It can feel easy to downplay the gravity of childhood pain; to parents, these old issues may feel irrelevant or minor.

What does my son want me to see him as?

He sees himself as a “grown-up,” and he wants you to see him that way, too — not as your child, but as your son who is a man. Setting boundaries, deciding where and how often he has contact with you, making decisions you are not happy with is not about you as much as it is about who he is as a man.