Why do narcissist forget things?

The memory problems the narcissist feigns are a result of their focus on manipulating their environment to support their false beliefs about the world around them. This is why the narcissist appears to have selective memory. They appear to remember some things and forget others.

Why do narcissists keep bringing up the past?

The narcissist brings up every time they have done something nice for you or stresses how much they care about you or reminds you of the wonderful times you’ve had together. If the positives don’t work to bring you back, narcissists default to their devaluing attacks.

Why do narcissists feel entitled to everything?

Being with the best convinces them they’re better than others, while internally, they’re not so sure. Narcissists feel entitled to get what they want from others regardless of their behavior. Their sense of entitlement masks their inner shame and insecurity.

What is the severity of narcissism?

The severity of narcissism varies. Some people have more symptoms with greater intensity, while other narcissists have fewer, milder symptoms. The following discussion thus may not apply to all narcissists to the same degree.

What does it mean to be a narcissistic shamed person?

Shame makes narcissists feel insecure and inadequate―vulnerable feelings that they must deny to themselves and others. This is one reason that they can’t take criticism, responsibility, dissent, or negative feedback even when meant to be constructive. Instead, they demand unconditional, positive regard from others.

Should you use the term “narcissist” when confronting a narcissist?

That is why I always recommend that when victims recognize that they are dealing with a narcissistic partner, to never confront them using the term “narcissist.” It will only cause narcissistic rage and backlash that can convince you to retreat.