Why do we need to own things?

We seek to recover from loss, loneliness, or heartache by purchasing unnecessary items. We seek fulfillment in material things. And we try to impress other people with the things that we own rather than the people that we are. But these pursuits will never fully satisfy our deficiencies.

Why do humans accumulate things?

The reasons we accumulate things is that we don’t want to leave the past behind and we are also afraid of the future. We feel attached to objects because they remind us of past moments or loved ones and we believe that by letting go, we will forget those memories.

Why do we always want new things?

Our brains are actually made to be attracted to novelty. It’s part of the brain’s natural desire to seek out new experiences, which provides us with stimulation and improves learning capacity. That means we’re fighting hard-wired instincts to seek out something new and different, every single day.

Why is it so hard for me to get rid of stuff?

One of the biggest reasons it’s hard to declutter for many people is simply lack of time. Your life might already be busy and full. And sometimes it feels like there’s just not enough time to add decluttering to your already never-ending to-do lists.

Why do I surround myself with clutter?

There’s a garden variety of reasons we have clutter. Uncontrolled consumer impulses, emotional sentiment, memories of the past, fear of a future need, guilt or obligation, and hope for a future change- are some of the most common. As emotional beings, we have the tendency to infuse our belongings with emotion.

Why humans want what they can’t have?

We want to fulfill a fantasy. We want to prove to ourselves and others we deserve to have them. We unconsciously placed superhuman characteristics on our object of desire. The less the person reciprocates, the more time we tend to invest trying to get the person to reciprocate.

Why do humans want more and more?

Whether we’re striving for a new job, more meaningful relationships, or personal enlightenment, we need to actively want something more in order to live well. In fact, neuroscience shows that the act of seeking itself, rather than the goals we realize, is key to satisfaction.

What can I do to get rid of my life?

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What does God say about clutter?

Ephesians 4:31-32 states, “Put away from you all bitterness and wrath and anger and wrangling and slander, together with all malice, and be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you.” Dealing with clutter, physical or spiritual, is a life-long endeavor.