How do you win an argument without getting angry?

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1. Stay calm. Even if you get passionate about your point you must stay cool and in command of your emotions.
2. Use facts as evidence for your position.
3. Ask questions.
4. Use logic.
5. Appeal to higher values.
6. Listen carefully.
7. Be prepared to concede a good point.
8. Study your opponent.

How do you not lose your temper in a debate?

Neuroscience Tips to Remain Calm in an Argument

1. Focus on what the other person is really trying to say.
2. Don’t raise your voice.
3. Pay attention to your body posture.
4. Breathe.
5. Exit an argument earlier than you think you need to.
6. Think of something calm or funny.
7. Don’t bring other issues into the argument.

Why do I get so angry during arguments?

Usually, when we argue, we tend to find ways to hurt people rather than trying to solve the issue. We do so through offensive statements, bringing back the past, aiming at insecurities and getting physical. This is the result of not thinking before speaking or taking action.

How do you argue nicely?

How to argue better

1. Keep it logical. Try not to let your emotions take over the logic of the situation.
2. Use “I” statements.
3. Don’t bring up the past.
4. Listen and clarify what you don’t understand.
5. Make requests rather than complaints.
6. Take time out.
7. Decide what is worth an argument.

How do you not back down in an argument?

Here are four simple statements you can use that will stop an argument 99 percent of the time.

1. “Let me think about that.” This works in part because it buys time.
2. “You may be right.” This works because it shows willingness to compromise.
3. “I understand.” These are powerful words.
4. “I’m sorry.”

Can you outsmart someone smarter than you?

You will never be able to outsmart a more intelligent individual (on your own) but you could easily outwork many of them. We may not have control about how smart we are but we all have control about how hard we can work.

How do you outsmart an opponent?

6 Ways to Outsmart and Outlast Your Opponents

1. Sponge Up the Pain. During workouts, don’t block out pain.
2. Dream the Feeling. “When you daydream, you’re training your neuromuscular connections—the impulses that affect muscle memory,” says Ungerleider.
3. Do Not “Do Not”
4. Feel Your Form.
5. Have a Plan.
6. Squeeze Out Stress.

How do you ease an argument?

How to Defuse an Argument

1. Look within.
2. Give yourself a little bit of space and a brief moment of time to calm down your initial emotional reactions.
3. Stop and reflect.
4. Communicate your views in terms of their highest values.
5. Learn to agree to disagree and still respect others’ opinions.