Why do you have a wake after a funeral?
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Why do you have a wake after a funeral?
The purpose of a wake in modern times is to share memories and stories of the lost loved one. It can be seen as a celebration of the person’s life, as well as an opportunity for family and friends to comfort each other in grief. During a wake, there will often be refreshments.
What comes first the wake or funeral?
A wake, also known as a visitation, typically occurs before the funeral takes place. The body is present at this time for people to pay their respects and offer condolences to loved ones of the deceased.
What comes after a funeral?
A repast is any gathering after a funeral service. You might have heard it called a reception, which is what it’s commonly known as today. Repasts are less formal than a funeral service or memorial. They are typically open to everyone who came to the funeral, though they can also be private, depending on the family.
What happens after a funeral?
After the funeral service, the remains of the deceased are usually transported by hearse to a cemetery or mausoleum. In the case of cremation the ashes may be buried in a cemetery but some families may choose not to bury the ashes. They may keep them in an urn, or scatter or bury them on private property.
How do you act at a funeral wake?
However, there are general etiquette rules to follow at the memorial service.
- DO: DRESS CONSERVATIVELY. “Modesty reigns.
- DON’T: SIT JUST ANYWHERE.
- DO: ACT NORMAL.
- DON’T: BE LATE.
- DO: LAUGH.
- DON’T: INSTAGRAM THE FUNERAL.
- DO: BRING KIDS.
- DON’T: BE RATTLED BY RELIGION.
What is the difference between a wake and a repast?
In days past, a Wake was a common form of saying farewell to our deceased. Today we have gentler titles like Repass (repast) or Celebration of Life. The difference in these events is the actual presence of the loved one who has passed away.
What do you call refreshments after a funeral?
We sometimes hear the after-funeral reception is referred to as a “repast.” Historically, the repast was a meal shared by close friends and family after the funeral. In modern times, the nature of the repast has evolved to include larger gatherings. For some, a close intimate meal is still the order of the day.
What do you say after a funeral?
What You Should Say & Do
- Say, “I’m sorry”
- Give them the opportunity to talk about the deceased.
- Allow them to share their memories.