Why are my messages not showing on OkCupid?

If you’re missing a conversation/match, one of the following reasons might be why: You may have blocked the other person. The other person may have blocked you. The other person may have deleted their account.

How do I see messages on OkCupid?

Like them

1. From Discover, drag their photo to the right or click the heart icon.
2. From Questions, visit their profile, and click/tap the Like button to bring up the message button.
3. If you Like each other, we’ll always let both of you know for FREE right away.

How do you know if you are blocked on OkCupid?

You can view your blocked/unmatched users on the app by tapping on your profile, then on Account Settings. From there, tap on Privacy, then on Blocked & Unmatched.

Who has to message first on OkCupid?

So, we’re making a fairly radical design change that’s now available to everyone: first messages appear on the profile of the sender and only on the profile of the sender. Yes, you deserve an explanation, and unlike that guy who ghosted after three seemingly pleasant dates, we’ll give you one.

What does green light on OkCupid mean?

Simple it means that person is active talking to anyone in the site where you are in . It means they are available to talk to you if they don’t want to also. They can also make their name not colored green by paying extra money to the site so you can’t see them.

Do girls message first on OK Cupid?

Does the girl have to message first on OKCupid?

Unlike Tinder, you don’t have to match with someone on OKCupid in order to message them. So any straight or bi woman who has ever used the site understands that part of the deal is getting a lot of messages from men that range from subtle negging to straight-up sexual harassment.

Does OKCupid notify multiple visits?

Short answer: zero.” The email went on: “you can now connect with even more people because you don’t have to feel shy about showing up as a visitor — and neither do they.” OkCupid says this decision allows for “awkward-free profile perusal.” That’s a reasonable stance, sure.

How do you see who likes you on OKCupid?

If you and another member Like each other, we always let you both know, for free. If they like you first: as soon as you Like their profile, you’ll see a pop-up telling you that you both Like each other! We also show you people who have Liked you and sent you an Intro in the intros section.